Monday, July 02, 2007

Acceptance Vs Non-Acceptance

When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done - and I m not able to accept it - I become angry.
When someone is doing something or about to do something, in a way I don't want it to be done - and I m able to accept it - I remain tolerant.

When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which I m not able to produce - and I m not able to accept it - I become jealous.
When someone is having something or someone is able to produce the results which I m not able to produce - and I m able to accept it - I get inspired.

When I m encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which I m not sure how I m going to handle - and I m not able to accept it - it causes fear in me.
When I m encountering uncertainty or is about to encounter uncertainty, which I m not sure how I m going to handle - and I m able to accept it - I feel adventurous about it.

When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and I m not able to accept it - it develops hatred in me.
When someone has done something that has emotionally hurt me - and I m able to accept it - it helps me forgive them.

When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and I m not able to accept it - I say I m missing u.
When someone is present in my thoughts, but is not physically present - and I m able to accept it - I say I m thinking of u.

Thus, Emotional Equation becomes:
Something + acceptance = positive emotion
Something + non-acceptance = negative emotion

So, it is not something or someone who is making me feel positive or negative, but it's my acceptance or non-acceptance of something or someone, which impacts things.

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